Wednesday, June 5, 2024
concentration and equanimity
Saturday, January 20, 2024
being afflicted
Friday, June 30, 2023
the power of speech
... there are five courses of speech that others may
Wednesday, March 15, 2023
whatever you frequently think
Whatever you frequently think and ponder upon,
Tuesday, November 22, 2022
on loving-kindness
He who is skilled in good, and wishes to
attain that state of Peace, should act thus:
he should be able, upright, perfectly upright,
amenable to corrections, gentle and humble.
He should be contented, easy to support,
unbusy, simple in livelihood,
with senses controlled, discreet,
not impudent, and not greedily attached to families.
He would not commit any slight misdeeds
that other wise men might find fault in him.
May all beings be well and safe,
may their hearts rejoice.
Whatever beings there are —
weak or strong, long or short,
big, medium-sized or small, subtle or gross,
Those visible or invisible,
residing near or far, those that have come to be
or have yet to come, (without exceptions)
may all beings be joyful.
Let one not deceive nor despise
another person, anywhere at all.
In anger and ill-will,
let him not wish any harm to another.
Just as a mother would protect her
only child with her own life,
even so, let him cultivate boundless thoughts
of loving kindness towards all beings.
Let him cultivate boundless thoughts
of loving kindness towards the whole world —
above, below and all around,
unobstructed, free from hatred and enmity.
Whether standing, walking, seated
or lying down, as long as he is awake,
he should develop this mindfulness.
This they say, is the divine abiding here.
Not erroneous with views,
endowed with virtues and insight,
with sensual desires abandoned,
he would come no more to be conceived in a womb.
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
the rock and the wind
Wednesday, August 12, 2020
equanimity
“abundant, exalted, immeasurable, without hostility, and without ill-will.”
The English word “equanimity” translates two separate Pali words
used by the Buddha, upekkha and tatramajjhattata. Upekkha,
the more common term, means “to look over” and refers to the equanimity
that arises from the power of observation—the ability to see
without being caught by what we see. When well developed,
such power gives rise to a great sense of peace.
Upekkha can also refer to the spaciousness that comes from seeing
a bigger picture. Colloquially, in India the word was sometimes used to mean
“to see with patience.” We might understand this as “seeing with understanding.”
For example, when we know not to take offensive words personally,
we are less likely to react to what was said. And by not reacting
there is greater possibility to respond from wisdom and compassion.
This form of equanimity is sometimes compared to grandmotherly love.
The grandmother clearly loves her grandchildren but,
thanks to her experience with her own children,
is less likely to be caught up in the drama of the grandchildren’s lives.
Still more qualities of equanimity are revealed by the term tatramajjhattata,
a long compound made of simple Pali words. Tatra, meaning “there,”
sometimes refers to “all these things.” Majjha means “middle,”
and tata means “to stand or to pose.” Put together, the word becomes
“to stand in the middle of all this.” As a form of equanimity,
this “being in the middle” refers to balance, to remaining centered
in the middle of whatever is happening. This form of balance
comes from some inner strength or stability. The strong presence
of inner calm, well-being, confidence, vitality, or integrity
can keep us upright, like ballast keeps a ship upright in strong winds.
. As inner strength develops, for example, from the accumulation
of mindfulness in the ordinary moments of life, equanimity follows.
As a solid mass of rock
Is not stirred by the wind,
So a sage is not moved
By praise and blame.
As a deep lake
Is clear and undisturbed,
So a sage becomes clear
Upon hearing the Dharma.
Virtuous people always let go.
They don’t prattle about pleasures and desires.
Touched by happiness and then by suffering,
The sage shows no sign of being elated or depressed.
—Dhammapada 81-83
art by Amy Ruppel
Wednesday, April 1, 2020
as we think, so we become
The word manifests as the deed,
The deed develops into a habit,
And habit hardens in character,
.
So watch the thought and it's ways with care,
And let it spring from love,
Born out of concern for all beings...
.
As the shadow follows the body,
As we think so we become.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
A man traveling across a field encountered a tiger
He fled, the tiger after him.
Two mice, one white and one black,
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