at the centre

When I am at the centre of my unrequited love

I cannot hold it as an object

It has no sharp edges to torture anyone

I breathe the fragrance of the longing

and the longing has no proprietor

"O my love" embraces the great wide sky

as the night picks through the constellations

lifting necklace after dripping necklace

for the delight of my true beloved

"O my love" cries out from every pore of snow

and the forest answers a from great height:

.

"O my love"

~ Leonard Cohen

.

I learned through my body and soul

I learned through my body and soul
 that it was necessary for me to sin,

that I needed lust,

that I had to strive for property,

and experience nausea and the depths of despair

in order to learn not to resist them,

in order to learn to love the world ...

Hermann Hesse, from 'Siddhartha'

 

dark eyes

My love and my yearning for home

ignited in the heat of this night

like the sweet fragrance of foreign flowers

fanning the flames of a fierce fervor.

My love and my yearning for home

and all my fortune and misfortune

now stand like silent stanzas of a song

in the dark mirror of your mythic gaze.

My love and my yearning for home

have turned away from the noise of this world

and in your dark eyes

have built a vast, secret throne.

~ Hermann Hesse

from The seasons of the Soul

translated by Ludwig Max Fischer

cannot be thought, caught, or sought by understanding

For silence is not God, nor speaking; 

fasting is not God, nor eating; 

solitude is not God, nor company; 

nor any other pair of opposites.

  He is hidden between them, 

and cannot be found by anything your soul does, 

but only by the love of your heart.  

He cannot be known by reason, 

he cannot be thought, caught, 

or sought by understanding.  

But he can be loved and 

chosen by the true, loving will of your heart.

~ the cloud of unknowing

the singing bowl

Begin the song exactly where you are.
Remain within the world of which you're made.
Call nothing common in the earth or air.

Accept it all and let it be for good.
Start with the very breath you breathe in now,
This moment's pulse, this rhythm in your blood

And listen to it, ringing soft and low.
Stay with the music, words will come in time.
Slow down your breathing. Keep it deep and slow.

Become an open singing bowl, whose chime
Is richness out of emptiness,
And timelessness resounding into time.

And when the heart is full of quietness
Begin the Song exactly where you are.

 

 

 

 

 

~ Malcolm Guite
art by Joyce Huntington
with thanks to whiskey river

 

 

you can go

There is a place you can go

where you are quiet,

a place of water and the light

on the water. Trees are there,

leaves, and the light

on leaves moved by air.

Birds, singing, move

among leaves, in leaf shadow.

After many years you have come

to no thought of these,

but they are themselves

your thoughts. There seems to be

little to say, less and less.

Here they are. Here you are.

Here as though gone.

None of us stays, but in the hush

where each leaf in the speech

of leaves is sufficient syllable

the passing light finds out

surpassing freedom of its way.

~ Wendell Berry

from Sabbaths 1998, VII

karma and reinforcing mental pathways

understanding karma has to do with the quality of mind in the very moment of action. 

When we experience a mind state of love, there comes naturally, along with it,

 a feeling of openness and love that is its immediate fruit; similarly, 

when there are moments of greed or hatred, in addition to whatever future results 

will come, we also experience the painful energies that arise with those states.

 Our direct awareness of how the karmic law is working in each moment 

can be a strong motivation to develop skillful states of mind that create happiness

 for us in the moment, as well as produce the fruit of well-being in the future.


Another dimension of the law of karma helps in understanding 

how individual personalities develop. While it is true that there is no enduring entity, 

no unchanging self that can be called “I,” it is also quite obvious that each of us

 is a uniquely changing and recognizable pattern of elements. This comes about

 because each of us has in our own way, both consciously and unconsciously,

 cultivated different mind states. If we cultivate lovingkindness, we experience 

its taste in the moment and at the same time are strengthening it as a force

 in the mind, making it easier for it to arise again. When we are angry, 

we experience the suffering of that anger as present karma and are also strengthening 

that particular pattern of mind. Just as we condition our bodies in different ways 

through exercise or lack of it, so we also condition our minds. Every mind state, 

thought, or emotion that we experience repeatedly becomes stronger 

and more habituated. Who we are as personalities is a collection of all

 the tendencies of mind that have been developed, the particular energy

 configurations we have cultivated


We tend not to pay attention to this conditioning factor of our experience, 

thinking instead that once an experience has passed it is gone without residue or result. 

That would be like dropping a stone in water without creating any ripples. 

Each mind state that we experience further conditions and strengthens it.



People sometimes wonder whether reflecting upon the law of karma 

will lead to feelings of guilt for past unwholesome actions. Guilt is a

 manifestation of condemnation or aversion toward oneself, which does not

 understand the changing transformative quality of mind. It solidifies a sense

 of self by being nonforgiving. Understanding the law of karma leads us

 to reflect wisely on the skillfulness or unskillfulness of our actions.

 In the infinite time of our births, through all the realms of existence, 

we have done so many different kinds of actions, wholesome and unwholesome.

 In view of karmic law, guilt is an inappropriate feeling, and a rather useless burden. 

It simply creates more unwholesome results. Coming to an understanding

 of karma is the basis for a very straightforward development of the wisdom

 to know whether our actions will lead to happiness and freedom,

 or to further suffering. When we understand this, it allows us to take responsibility

 for past actions with an attitude of compassion, appreciating that a particular act

 may have been unwholesome or harmful, and strongly determining

 not to repeat it. Guilt is a manifestation of condemnation, wisdom an expression

 of sensitivity and forgiveness. . 



.

~ Joseph Goldstein
from Cause and Effect - Reflecting on the law of karma 

printed in Tricycle

 .

creating the house we live in

What we speak
becomes the house
we live in.
Who will want
to sleep in your bed
if the roof leaks
right above it?

Fear is the
cheapest room
in the house,
I would like
to see you living
in better conditions.

There is only one reason
we have followed God
into this world:
to encourage laughter,
freedom,
dance and love ....

God and I are rushing
from every corner of
existence,
needing to say
we are yours.

The sun never says
to the earth,
even after all this time
“you owe me”.

I once asked a bird
how is it that you
fly in this gravity
of darkness?
she responded,
love lifts me.

I should not make
any promises right now
but I know if you pray
somewhere in this world
something good
will happen.

~ Hafiz
Daniel Ladinsky and
Robert Bly versions
 with thanks to Love is a place

beyond words

There’s a language beyond words. Silence creates the space for it. 

Sometimes when we feel powerless to speak words that are meaningful, 

when we have to back off into unknowing and helplessness,

 but remain in the situation, silence creates the space 

that’s needed for a deeper happening to occur. 

But often, initially, that silence is uneasy. 

It begins “as a small frightened thing”

 and only slowly grows 

into the kind of warmth 

that dissolves tension.

~ Ron Rolheiser

from  The Healing Place of Silence

art by Alfredo Ramos Martinez

 

silence is for me a fount of healing

Silence is for me a fount of healing
 which makes my life worth living. 

Talking is often a torment for me, 

and I need many days of silence 
to recover from the futility of words.

~ C. G. Jung

essential points

~ Joseph Goldstein

 

the long lesson

Again I resume the long

lesson:  how small a thing

can be pleasing, how little

in this hard world it takes

to satisfy the mind

and bring it to its rest.

Within the ongoing havoc

the woods this morning is

almost unnaturally still.

Through stalled air, unshadowed

light, a few leaves fall

of their own weight.

The sky

is gray.  It begins in mist

almost at the ground

and rises forever.  The trees

rise in silence almost

natural, but not quite,

almost eternal, but

not quite.

What more did I

think I wanted?  Here is

what has always been.

Here is what will always

be.  Even in me,

the  Maker of all this

returns in rest, even

to the slightest of His works,

a yellow leaf slowly

falling, and is pleased.

~ Wendell Berry

a pastime

For more than five years, I maintained myself this solely
 by the labor of my hands, and I found, that by working
 about six weeks a year, I could meet all the expenses of living.

In short, I am convinced, both by faith and experience,
 that to maintain one's self on this earth is not a hardship
 but a pastime, if we will live simply and wisely...
It is not necessary that a man should earn his living 
by the sweat of his brow, unless he sweats easier than I do.

Some are "industrious," and appear to love labor for its own sake, 
or perhaps because it keeps them out of worse mischief; to such
 I have at present nothing to say.  Those who would not know 
what to do with more leisure than they now enjoy, 
I might advise to work twice as hard as they do - work till they pay 
for themselves, and get their free papers.  For myself I have found
 that the occupation of a day laborer was the most independent of any, 
especially as it required only thirty or forty days in a year to support one. 


The laborer's day ends with the going down of the sun,
 and he is then free to devote himself to his chosen pursuit,
 independent of his labor; but his employer, who speculates from
 month to month, has no respite from one end of the year to another.

~ Henry David Thoreau

from Walden, 'Economy,' 1854

art by Roderick Maclver

a wisp of cloud

Fixed ideas are like a wisp of cloud or smoke, 

but nonetheless people find themselves blocked or captured by these.

 You would laugh if you saw someone tripped by a cloud,

 or if someone claimed that they were imprisoned by the air. 

But, in fact, people are endlessly being trapped by things

 no more substantial than air or clouds. 

They make a wall with their mind, and then it imprisons them.

 Inherently, there is no wall or anything to trip over. 

These things are mirages 

they've created from the thoughts they gave rise to.

 Do not insist upon your own fixed ideas.

 Your persistence is your own narrow mind.

 If your mind is broad, it can easily embrace the entire world. 

However, if your mind is narrow, 

even a needle cannot enter.

 

 

 You have to keep letting go of your stubbornness, 

and always be deeply respectful of all life and things. 

 This is also how to become a free person. 

Always be humble. Be humble. 

The fragrance of your broad and generous mind
 will warm others’ hearts.

~  Zen Master Daehaeng

behind apparent opposites

Four sets of contrasting conditions that all of us are subject to

 at one point or another in our lives. The cultivation of equanimity

 involves looking deeply at our relationship to these eight conditions in life.

The first set is praise and blame. 

In the moment of being praised, can we be aware of our reactions?

 We may discover that we push praise away automatically, 

be­cause of discomfort, or that we take it in too much and find ourselves

 dependent on receiving more. In the moment of being blamed,

 can we be aware of our reactions? We may discover that our reactions

 include trying to justify our actions, blaming ourselves, or blaming

 the person who blamed us. We may im­mediately think the person is right.

 We may immediately think the person is wrong.

Of course we will probably feel badly when blamed.

 The question is: Can we be mindful of feeling badly

 rather than allowing ourselves to get lost in it?

 Can we be aware of the reaction instead of caught in the story about it?

 If it is use­ful information, can we learn from it?

 If it is not useful, can we let it go?

 Can we see that praise and blame are often

 out of our control?

The second is the arena of gain and loss.

 What is our relationship to gain? Is gain always positive? 

What is our relationship to loss? Is loss always negative? 

When we reflect on past experiences is it ever true that what we thought 

at the time was a gain was actually a loss and that what we thought was a loss

 turned out to be a gain? In attaching to having gained something,

 is there as well the fear that it will be lost? In attaching to having succeeded

 in something, is there as well the fear of failure?

In any culture there are fixed ideas of what it means to be successful

 and what it means to fail, of what it means to gain and what it means to lose.

 When we cling to models of success, we set ourselves up for disappointment. 

To question these models is to find an inner freedom that emerges 

out of understanding and is not based on models. 

In non-attachment we allow for wis­dom to emerge. 

We see that gain and loss are a natural part of the flux of life. 

The third set is the need to become aware of our relationship to pleasure and pain, 

  What is the result of running after pleasure and pushing away pain?

 Can we become more aware of the suffering inherent in the pursuit of pleasure

 and in the avoidance of pain? Or is it possible to experience pleasure 

fully without clinging to it and trying to make it last?

 In the moment of experi­encing something painful can we open to the pain

 without trying to get rid of it?

To experience liberation in relation­ship to these, we need to understand

 their changing nature. Understanding that both pleasure and pain 

arise and pass away, and seeing that both are often out of our control, 

we learn not to cling to either; and in non-clinging there is freedom. 

We open to pleasure and pain, 

yet are not overwhelmed by desire or aversion.

The last set is fame and disrepute.

 Do we need to be seen by others when we do something we think worthy? 

What is our reaction to being misjudged? 

What is our re­lationship to status?

 Being aware of our relationship to fame and disrepute

 allows us to be free from dependency on the opinions of others.

 We to learn how to see their insubstantiality of each condition. 

Through being mindful we become more aware of the impermanence of both.

 We see the conditional nature of fame, and that lasting peace and hap­piness

 doesn’t come through being fa­mous. We see that disrepute is tempo­rary, 

and need not bring lasting unhap­piness. The more balanced we can be

 in relationship to these, the more we free ourselves from having to be seen

 by others in any particular way. When no longer swayed by changing tides

 of fame or disrepute, we discover a peace 

that doesn’t depend on how others see us.

If we can remember more and more to bring mindfulness to these occasions

 as they arise in our daily life, we can begin to see the suffering of attachment.

 We can begin to see the essential emptiness and impermanence of conditions.

 In meditation practice we may not like what arises, and yet it is the willingness

 to stay with what is happening that brings liberation.

 The less attached we are to comfort, 

the more at ease we are within ourselves

 and within this world. 

This doesn’t mean that we have to be passive par­ticipants in life. 

If it’s hot we can open the windows. But in the many times when we cannot 

change or control our experiences, can we find an inner refuge?

 This inner refuge is the capacity to be equanimous.

 

 

 

~  Narayan Liebenson

from the Insight Journal

Barre Center for Buddhist Studies